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He won't, but I will do so if he does.

Question for everyone: H and I are sort of in MC. We went a few times, like the C, but it became clear that H can't bring himself to work on our M at this point, so we started seeing C individually. Next week, we have an appt together. H agreed to this, and C told me she thought we could keep the topic away from the fate of our M and instead talk about daily life stuff --ie housekeeping, the kids, etc.

I am not able to cancel the session, so I am asking for advice on how to make it productive without compromising on the DB stuff too much.We are still living together and friendly, and I don't think (but who the heck knows) that H is close to actually leaving.