Please read my last paragraph above starting with "I assume she's thinking..." and let me know if I'm on target relative to what might be going on in my wife's mind. I was sitting here at work and was just suddenly overcome with curiousity.
One other question, really for females in general. I'm a nice looking guy, smart, funny, successful, a good dad, and generally quite pleasant to be around. Yet I don't think my wife finds me even the slightest bit sexy anymore - at least if she does she manages to hide it quite well. I feel like you women have it easy because it's usually quite appealing when you try to be sexy. But men can't really get away with that - I mean it's not like we can walk into the room in a thong without just looking like dorks (I do realize that there may be exceptions). Anyway, I think you probably get my point. What can a guy do that might really drive a woman wild? I honesly have no idea. Before my wife and I started dating, I overheard her talking about how the cologne that this guy was wearing just drove her wild. He was at least 60 years old and it wasn't as if she was even the slightest bit attracted to him - it was just that particular smell. I went out that night and bought the same cologne, which may very well be what got my wife interested in me - who knows? But I continue to wear that cologne to this day and I guess my wife must have become "immune" to it. I'm interested in any opinions - is there a cologne, something I could wear, a certain way of acting, a certain way I could touch her - anything that might suddenly make her see me as sexy again? I realize every woman is different, but I'm curious what anyone has to say.