IM SO GLAD TO SEE SOMEONE ELSE WHO DID THIS...MY H HAD AREAS OF HIS LIFE LIKE THIS....NO ONE COMPARTMENT WAS ALLOWED TO OVERLAP...HE HAD JOB/OW/ME/THE D....WEIRD
I think a lot of men (even non MLCers) compatmentalize. I know I do. It drives W crazy. But we really don't connect things across areas of our lives. I cannot explain it, and I don't know why, but it is a very real thing. It is almost like there is a brain change-out when I go to work, or back home. Then there's hobby time, or kid time, etc. It is a real thing. And it isn't just MLC. Though it might be even more exaggerated in MLC.
Someone once told me to think of a man's brain like a honeycomb...everything has its compartment. They think about one thing at a time...
A womans brain is like a bowl of spagetti....One thought leads to another and another and another and so on...
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10