my W was trying to convince me that sex once a month was normal and I was some kind of pervert for wanting more. It was my problem and not hers. I can so relate to your story as well as Sooner's. 1-2 times a day would be like paradise. Lateley is been 1-2 times a week which is like being let out of prison or something.

Hi Fred
Just because lots of people have screwed up sex lives and are only doing the monthly maintenance doesn't mean it's healthy or that's the way it should be. Why must our pleading and begging fall on deaf ears? Life could be so good...