Don't Push!!! A Newbies MUST Read.

[grid, lost]

(I gotta say, he has gotten amazingly good at dodging questions...)

Lovemyguy,
You have a somewhat same MLCr as I. Mine gone since10/2006 because we have to talk to each other daily, business to run. We do. That said, H will always, to this day, answer to question, I don't know, can't answer. Will not make a decision to save his life. Accept and let it go, you will feel a lot better. Hard I know, been there. You are trying to carry 5 cinder blocks up side of mountain.

Are we going to a movie Sat night? Who knows? Hopefully I'll find out from someone.

Just drop it. honest let it go, you are with out realizing playing a power game with H. Go to movie by yourself. Yes, you can do this. Put on a baseball cap if you want to hide and go to movie. H will be so shocked. I do this sorta stuff and never tell H, I know he wonders and wonders, stays surprised. You can do , yes you can.

I'm on a yo-yo too. One minute I'm convinced DB is the only way to go and I must adhere to it at all costs, but then suddenly I get thrown off course and think that it would be better for H & I to spend time together (hence the movie idea) than not to. Sometimes we really do reconnect when we hang out together--and that's why I issue these invitations sometimes.

[/quote] STay away from H, if you have some good times together then stay away and let H miss those times. GAL and he see a new you and missing out. Honest I am not critizing you just trying to offer what others told me and have found is working. This is a long painful yo-yo, thus we Must learn to GAL.
IMHO
grid, lost