If nothing else, being here reading about other people in virtually the same situation as I am gives me the comfort to know there is nothing wrong with me. Like you Aching man, my W was trying to convince me that sex once a month was normal and I was some kind of pervert for wanting more. It was my problem and not hers. I can so relate to your story as well as Sooner's. 1-2 times a day would be like paradise. Lateley is been 1-2 times a week which is like being let out of prison or something. I'd love more but sure as heck won't complain after 8 years of once a month. It took me almost leaving (not over the sex issue but because she had an EA) to get the change. I hope that you guys don't have to do anything as drastic.
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
