Starting to get it.... my 3rd thread

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Didn't fb2 say it earlier about asking for what you want. I'm sure that you have tried that, but next time he asks if you're happy yet, explain that you are getting there, but such and such would help you move further along - ask for what you want if he isn't doing it. He may also be stubborn and think that maybe he doesn't have to put any effort in because he "blames" you still. I could be way off base and maybe you've already covered this, but just my 2 cents