Soonerlady.....so sorry to see you here, but it is a good place to be for advice and support. Keep posting. There are alot of good advice givers here.

I dont think you have done any damage. I dont think you need to tell him that you love and miss him, Im sure he knows this. Everyone here will say that would pressure him and push him away. I would think telling him once would be enough. But You really cant tell them what to do, they have to WANT to do it first.

I would suggest reading Michelle's book and GAL....something I am having a hard time doing, but it can be done.

Good luck.


Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
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