Hello again: I have tried one session with a therapist and found that it was surprising in its effectiveness. It really got me thinking more about things from other perspectives (besides my own). And I found that I was able to be more emphathetic with my W. I would like to go back but $ is an issue there. I just thought that maybe even one call to one of the DB coaches could help clarify things or give you a ray of hope. You never know.
Your analogies are great -- I know how you feel about the Ferrari. I have felt that way many, many times. It's a wonder to me how men and women can truly be so different sometimes.