Starting to get it.... my 3rd thread

[blindsided1]

Chalk it up to being in a different place. It doesn't mean it's necessarily any easier than what the rest of us are going through. It's still painful, right? It's interesting to see your side of things, makes me understand what my H may go through if he ever decides to come home. Just remember, you get a whole day to relax and not try to please while your H is out of town. Make the most of it and try to have fun with your friend. How many weeks are you, now? Around 20? I'm at 16, still haven't gained a thing, feel great except for being tired and emotionally drained. I feel blessed in that respect.