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Things are supposed to be good without trying. So reading anything is out. Talking about things in any depth is out. Pretty much anything other than natural telepathy and mind reading is "forced" and therefore bad. I'm surprised she's even seeing a MC with me.



fred is it possible that your w is trying she just isn't trying YOUR way so your just not seeing it?? I suggested the five love languages..it may help you to see w trying in her own way. I know the concept of differing love languages has helped me to see that h is trying...even if it isn't my way he is trying...the more I appreciate his way..the more he is likely to start showing me in my way "physical touch".

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