Quote: I don't know whether or not you want to tell (or write) her that this has crossed your mind or not. Certainly DO NOT THREATEN. Maybe if she knows that this is a true consideration (as a last resort of yours due to your desperation and frustration) she may get the wake up call she needs. Anybody else have any thoughts on this route to take?
the only hole in doing so (and trust me I have taken that route..not as a threat but as a statement of possiblity) is that it may communicate what we don't intend...it may be interperted as a need for sex vs. a need to show love and affection.
