H never came back from Iraq

[MichelleLT]

Wow, so I have a lot of stuff going on. Another friend of mine from college apparently knows OW. She dated one of his fencing buddies, they both cheated on each other, broke up and got back together, etc. I talked to my friend this AM and here is part of our convo.

(10:32:34 AM) C: morning Michelle. I did some detective work to find out more about this [OW].
(10:32:42 AM) Me: lol oh really?
(10:32:59 AM) C: yeah well she is friends some with some people that I know
(10:33:30 AM) C: most of them think she is emotionally unbalanced
(10:33:51 AM) Me: i'd be inclined to agree from what little time i spent with her before all this crap happened
(10:33:59 AM) C: if you want
(10:34:11 AM) C: I could disseminate that she is dating a married man through my friends
(10:34:19 AM) C: they are friends with her and her friends
(10:34:48 AM) C: you would be complicit of any wrong-doing
(10:35:03 AM) Me: the thought of doing that definitely amuses me. i would be worried about it backlashing on me though

I do not like secrets. I am very tempted to let him tell his friends what OW is doing. I hope it would put some pressure on her, and ideally cause her to further pressure him about the D. What do you guys think?