since I am not a low desire spouse I can offer very little to change your attitude but I can tell you something...
Quote: I’d give anything to be in her shoes. At least then I’d know that my spouse is in love with me, finds me attractive and sexy, and wants to be close to me. I have to live every day feeling that my wife finds me repulsive and that she’d be happier if I wasn’t even around.
that is exactly how I used to think..funny thing is what was comming across to h is..I don't like you...youre not good enough...I hate you...etc....
perhaps you could just get the book...read it...have a better understanding of such things...you may even discover your other love languages and learn to focus on when those are being met...no it wont deplete the fact that you still want "sex" but it may help to ease the "suffering" it may help you to feel loved when you know what language the other is speaking.
read it for yourself..and leave it for w...if she chooses to read it fine if not fine..
