sooner I do understand how you feel...believe me I do.. I understand your frustrations..I understand your sadness the emptiness..the helplessness etc...
perhaps you could get the book for your wife...it may help her to better understand the "issue". Not suggesting michelle hasn't done a great job with ssm...but ssm keeps it's focus on sex and that may seem like pressure to a low drive spouse..especially one who doesn't have a problem with it. the five love languages is more about how people feel loved and may help w to better understand herself and you in those areas.
