I can't imagine how hard it was to deal with all the paperwork and then wondering if you are doing the right thing. I'm pretty sure you know you are, but it's easy to doubt yourself when you make that kind of decision...
It's amazing how your actions to protect yourself can change other people (like your friend). with any luck, at least you and W will be good friends one day and hopefully, this can be a turning point in her life as well.
I hope you're going to hang around, I see you having some wonderful advice for newcomers... (for example)
Quote:
take care of yourself, and live your life. This person isn't oxygen, they are a person only. It hurts to be stabbed in the back, but as if life and it may not kill you.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
