I don't believe a woman should EVER use her cow with her H,
Really?! Well if I go by MJ's definition, the cow is lovable, mature, and kind. What's wrong with that? I just mentioned I think I pulled out the cow with H last night and thought it was a pretty good way to go (in small doses of course). All animals in moderation still seems like a smart approach. Maybe you can clarify when you get a chance.