don't take my saying this as a woman who doesn't understand your plight...cause I sure do!!! I am the woman in a ssm...I am the one who want it...I am the one who gives h what he wants...is nice and waits patiently only to not get what I want..
I just want to know...in addition to ssm have you read the five love languages??? if your wives are not accepting the ssm book it may be because it's focus is on sex...the 5ll's book goes into more detail about how different people show and receive love differently it is not about sex but physical touch is one of the 5ll's it may be useful for you to read that book...understand it and then ask your w's to read it too.
