(Kett) (This assumes you mean "pushing through resistance" in a ... legal? way. Some serious seduction, some saucy tease. I *assume* you aren't referring to *actually* not taking a *serious* "no" for an answer. Which would be the deal-breaker to end all deal-breakers with me, right up there with physical violence. The epitome of disrespect. But I'm sure that's not what you meant.)
You once quoted the movie Oscar in this very forum, so I like you.
Never ever do that up there to me again.
Yikes!!! that was a pretty nonspecific rebuke, but let me just say that "I'm sure that's not what you meant" means exactly that, NOT "I say, 'I'm sure that's not what you meant', but actually I do think that you possibly meant that."
To be as clear as possible, I didn't think you were advocating marital rape. At all. Just put it down to some crazy drive of mine to be crystal clear (perhaps overly so) on a subject I feel passionately about.
I like you too, and I had no intention to offend. I apologize.
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