Thanks for the 2x4 - please feel free to use a pressure treated 2x6.
After last night, we both have clarity about ending our M. I told her that I would not want her back and that I will not remarry her if she changes.
You are probably right about dating too soon. I guess some of my desire is I feel lonely for the embrace of another woman. I have told myself that once the D is final that I will go see my C to determine when to start dating again and what to watch out for. I talked with a divorced friend of mine last night and he said that dating is not all that it is cracked up to be. He said that his experience with online dating is that there are a lot of women that use older pictures and when you meet them you are in for quite a surprise. He also said there is a good amount of plan crazy women. I may just test the waters some by being a little more friendly with gals I encounter, but I dont want to get involved in anything for a while.
