Thanks Atlas. I do need to have a serious talk with my lawyer now about a financial strategy. My W finally told me she is going to talk to a lawyer next week.
Just this morning, I asked about what my kids living arrangement will be at the OM house. She says that right now he is going to build a new big house next to his on the lake and that he will be designing it with the kids bedrooms in mind. For the time being, the kids will share one bedroom. I then asked my wife if she plans to marry OM and she said she does not want to. I asked if he wanted to marry her and she said yes. I cant help but use logic, so I then asked her what is in it for the OM if he cant get an R commitment from her. She did not know. I told her if she does not want to keep moving from man to man that she needs to commit herself to this one and give him her love and dedication. I have a hard time seeing their R lasting long, but that is not my problem. It just bothers me that my kids might be affected by this.
