To me it's easy to give validation to the man I love!!
Interesting. I'm assuming you didn't feel validated by your Ex often, especially when he was having his A's, but you still gave it to him?
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I was told I was the one with the problem - jealousy
That's just mean behavior and not at all honest.
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My XH stated that his issue was that he was always looking for others to lead him.
Women can get away with that sometimes but a man who needs to be led is not very attractive. I'll ditto what RJ asked, how did you maintain passion for him? Are you sure you're not rewriting history? still stumped