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To me it's easy to give validation to the man I love!!

Interesting. I'm assuming you didn't feel validated by your Ex often, especially when he was having his A's, but you still gave it to him?
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I was told I was the one with the problem - jealousy

That's just mean behavior and not at all honest.
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My XH stated that his issue was that he was always looking for others to lead him.

Women can get away with that sometimes but a man who needs to be led is not very attractive.
I'll ditto what RJ asked, how did you maintain passion for him? Are you sure you're not rewriting history? ;\)
still stumped

LFL