Casey The enabling thing here is the D is your choice. You are not bound by any time constraint unlike the folks who has a WA who is filing. In a few areas you are in control believe it or not.
The real area of control you have is what Joe speaks of. There are people who waited out their spouses insanity and took them back in and others who had enough and filed. We would all cheer for you if your spouse became a prodical son and returned begging forgiveness but that is only one senerio.
Off to study more. Just finished the Navy's TB pgm and on to the exciting Recovery of Precious metal program. This is why so many volunteer to go to SW Asia. Arrrrrrrg
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
