I liked your list of 10 things you should do. But this:
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She said she was having a hard day the other day so I stopped on the way home and picked up some pink tulips, one of her favorites. I barely got a thank you.
shows that you don't get this:
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The give to get, the covert contracts, the issues ive had with women in the past, etc.
The "I barely got a thank you" seethes with resentment. Your buying of tulips was a covert contract. You need to recognize these things on the fly. Believe me, I know it's hard to do.
