Hi RHW, Glad to see that you have resurfaced! I agree with LFL that ultimately you want to achieve a balance, but it's hard to do in your situation because of all the schedule upheavals. I have also gotten back to being LD, and I know I have to work harder to get myself in that sex-ready zone, and I do recognize it's my responsibility ( and joy) to keep things vamped up here and there. Yet, it is okay, and healthy, to relax a bit too, and it all gets easier as the element of trust builds. Your H will see that your heart is in the right place, so if you need to bail, it is really not a big deal. In fact, my H feels comfortable bailing from time to time too. There is so much more to marriage than behaving like sex machines, as long as you keep the machinery flowing regularly and make the effort. BTW, I do miss those HD feelings, but those came in the context of a very unstable relationship, and I wouldn't go back there for anything.
Enjoy the next few days...I agree with you, keep it light.
