I'm just making sure that I'm doing it "for him" and also to keep the intimacy in our M alive. Also, we're in a different sitch as he is leaving Saturday
Hi Red
You need to find a happy balance here. There is nothing wrong with doing it "for him" once in a while but certainly not the majority of the time. That is not building intimacy. It can quickly turn into duty sex and no man or woman wants that. I'm sure you are stressed over him leaving again so that probably has a lot to do with it. Who could blame you. When he gets back, you can devote your full attention to the two of you and the M. It may just be a strange time right now. Hope things get better for you soon.
