I think having both spouses first understand and second communicate their needs effectively is a major milestone. You must be on the right track! My W is starting to understand my needs but hasn't really told me what she needs different from me. She must need something or she wouldn't have had the EA with OM. What is really disturbing is the EA started about the time I was feeling the best about our R that I ever had. I stopped working late all the time and was probably more attentive to her than ever before.
Off to see the MC with my W. Then taking the kids to my sister's so we can have dinner out and a movie.
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
