saffie, his own brother's first wife left him for a woman. They were married for 16 years!!! Its still a shock to the family and H has joked about it to me (turning my sexual orientation). Heck, minus the sex stuff, I could TOTALLY see marrying a woman. We would sooooo get each other. ;\)

Hope, you are right. There is nothing I can do at the moment. I am continuing on with my life even though I want a different life. But there's that thing about 'no control'. I don't have control of the situation, so I am going to control what I can..... I'll let you know about Saturday night. I know the party goes from 5-9pm, but I know its a far drive for you to come into the city...