Well, last night I told him flat out - "I want to have sex with you. I'm just not feeling real horny." He started to just pull away and say that's ok because that has been our way in the past. I said "No. Don't. You never put your sexual needs before mine and you probably should get away with that sometimes. lol. There is nothing wrong with that. Plus it's kind of hot that you want me even when I'm not vibing sexual with you" So away we went and it was good.
Mrs. Eddie? Is that you?
(Nope. Different history and all. But, she did recently say "I want you but I'm not in the mood" shortly before letting me help her get in the mood.)
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.