Hey Michelle, you are absolutely right. H has done some wavering but I think part of it is because he doesn't know what I want. I am not sure. Also he has the whole not having a job thing going on since he just got out of the AF.
The thing is that I KNOW he is talking to her...he is still LIVING with her!! There are three of them in the house together. The only thing he has said about the situation is that he has been hanging out with people he thought he had a lot in common with but he has since found out that they are losers with no direction in life. He has stuck to the story that they are just friends since day one. He said that even when things were REALLY bad between us. I saw some text messages in the beginning that would suggest they are more than friends...he didn't do to good explaining those.
I do have to learn to be more patient. It would just be so much easier if he was HERE. I just don't see the point if he doesn't make that leap to move here.