I didn't realize until he said that what a weak-assed cow I must have been manifesting
Interesting story about your sex last night. I had a similar experience last night. H was all wolf/monkey and I was in the middle of working on something and was just not feeling the love so to speak. In the past, my weak cow would have just said no and probably gotten annoyed with him as well that our sex didn't just flow or something lame like that. Well, last night I told him flat out - "I want to have sex with you. I'm just not feeling real horny." He started to just pull away and say that's ok because that has been our way in the past. I said "No. Don't. You never put your sexual needs before mine and you probably should get away with that sometimes. lol. There is nothing wrong with that. Plus it's kind of hot that you want me even when I'm not vibing sexual with you" So away we went and it was good. He even commented afterwards - "I may be the only man I know who's W tells him, "no honey, I don't want sex but go ahead and do me anyways." Lol. He was quite pleased with himself. I said "Yeah, isn't that the irony. You have a very sexual W (and clearly I have a sexual H) yet our SL was all messed up." Before, I think that my weak cow and horny monkey messed everything up sometimes. His lack of wolf and too strong a St. Bernard didn't help. But now the animals are all living in peace and harmony.
