I'm not surprised at all about your H....my XH did similar sh$t to me. They will grasp at anything they can when they feel you are slipping away from them. It's ok if they do whatever they want, but the world stops the day you don't give him an itinerary of what you are doing. The only advice that I have with this is that I would keep continuing on and live for yourself. You can't change him...he's got to be the one to change and obviously if he's ranting and raving about a $10 parking ticket, he's got a lot of changing to do yet.
On a side note, my X continues to contact me about anything that he can think of. I don't go a week or two without hearing from him. When he walked out on me a year ago, he wouldn't contact me for a month or more...these guys are some confused men and we seem to be some amazingly strong women to continue to be able to deal with them.
Email me and let me know what's going on Saturday night. Maybe we can still try to meet up.
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