lwb - one of my GF's ran off with another woman, (after 20+ years of M and three children) - maybe your H is getting worried he has redirected your sexual orientation She is 43 and now has a 29yr old toy boy!!!! \:\/

Keep up the woman of mystery routine. If he catches a glimpse of Hope he will be jealous- she must be way prettier than OW. LOL

On a more serious note - you are so strong and your H does seem confused; why would he bother where you were going and who you were having lunch with if he didn't care about you? You are a v. precious person.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength