As usual, Dom's advice is solid.

My W and I separated in May for 1 week. We got back together and things were fantastic for 3 months. In month 4 alot of the same BS started to surface and we separated again.

I did the divorce busting ... I'd give myself a "c." Too much R talk. There was hope for us, but after a Thanksgiving weekend away, my W went full blast with the divorce. Since then, my life has been a nightmare.

Big bills, my job is a nightmare, living with a bud, distance from my child, anxiety.... ugggh.

Give your H a lot of space. He may come back.