A lot of WAs get cold feet when the actual D comes knocking. Losing you might not be how he pictured his new life at all.
If you don't want the divorce, don't move toward it. Do work to protect yourself and your daughter financially with parenting plan, division of assets and debts, etc. Make all of that legal and binding. Here you can do many of those things through the courts without getting the actual divorce unless one spouse pushes for the divorce.
If you do want to divorce and he's dragging his feet, you will have to be the one to push. But if you don't want it, maybe you have another chance now to go to DR basics, like GAL, and see what kind of results you get. He's kept your plans in limbo by messing with your daughter's schedule, but when your time is your time, he might wake up to what he will lose in a divorce.
Happy Friday Eve!
Joe
My sitch More importantly, Light A Million Candles
