The stop-sign thing's a bit tough for me, but I can impliment it sometimes with success.

heh. I've found that one of the things that gets my mind off the main thoughts of W, and serves as a bridge to something else are song lyrics. Like "Piano Man" by Billy Joel, or something non-relationship related. Or a rundown of characters from Star Trek or something like that.

I'm also trying to make myself realize when I DO have to think about it, that W's actions, however absurd, irraitional, or just outright sh*tty they seem to me -- they're totally normal and acceptable to her. That she really does think that she can be my friend, and go out and date/have sex with other guys, while expecting me to be OK with it.

I hope the Florida trip goes well for you - good weather all around! And good luck on getting to Vegas, too!

I didn't have a cupcake today, but I am getting a tasty cake Friday for the party. That'll be awesome. \:D


Me: 26 W: 25
Together: 6yrs
Married: 14 mo.
Bomb: 9/14/07