I think the reason that W tries hard to hide it is that she doesn't believe it is right herself or she is embarrased of her own choices. When she had the one time thing 2 years ago, she was very worried that people would find out that she had a lesbian A. It would surprise me if this conflict within herself is at the root of her attacks.
OW was hiding again when I got there today and thus W rushed me out the door again.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford