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More to this saga: H smoothed things over with his mom somehow, but still she has no idea if she is sitting for us on Sat night!! It's madness. I know I should let it go, but I want to simply say to H that it seems he doesn't want to go out Sat night and that's fine w/me.

I have no friends who are available on Sat night since they are all married and Sat is date night--so forget that. I have gone out with my friends alone for years (just rarely on Sat), so that's not a 180 in the least.

I just want it to be out in the open instead of playing these ridiculous games where no one says anything definite. H's family is like this in general and it drives me crazy. Yes, I know we all think our situations are the exception to the DB stuff--but the fact is we are not all cookie-cutter. We are individuals at the same time that we are dealing with stereotypical MLC. For me, it would feel better to say upfront that going out is not happening rather than leave it up in the air.
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