SD you are right , W is still riding her own roller coaster and is emotionaly all over the place. I realy dont feel like I have the energy to do too much other than to carry on with my life and try and let her affect me as little as possible.
My W and my energy levels to a 'T'. I am quite 'detached' ....just tired. I had focussed so much on Christmas and New Year and now they have passed I have found myself needing to GAL again. My GAL for the moment is to relax.
Originally Posted By: SuperDad
The question is, what is missing? In my case, my W's depression, NMA, caused me to spiral into a similar NMA, at least whenever I was around her. She saw that I was happy, except when I was with her and basically treated being married to her as an obligation and a burden (which it was). I definitely don't want back into that R and also don't see any effort on her part to address her issues.
That was me too.
I guess we just have to be very patient for Ws to address their issues. Not impossible though.....after all.....aren't we doing that as well?
Me 44 W 39 M 10yrs (together 13 years) one D 8 ILYBINILWY Feb 2007 Separated - 5th September 07
Will get there in the end. Will get there in the end 2.
