Living together as semi-polite strangers

[mishka422]

Jack,

You're right. I know it. I don't think I can stand the fact that he looked me in the eyes and lied directly into them, again. What's that saying, "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." I will NOT be made a fool of. I am not going to confront him about any of this but I am getting back up. I can not do anything to contest this D he put in motion unless I drag all of this laundry into the street. If I don't contest it with allegations of adultery then it will be final in 60 days no if's, and's or but's. This is the only way I can slow all of this down. I don't like it but he's left me no choice. I won't be walked on and I won't just let him have his D! Do you really think I could DB after the D is final and I didn't even get to fight because this state has such a short turn around? The timeframe I am up against is the problem.

No, I didn't think I was going to have some miracle. I thought I'd have time to work through this. Time for him to figure out what he was doing. But no, he files for D. Nothing I can do quickly enough to stop it other than put all of his crap out there. It's only going to serve to p.o. him more and drive him further away. I don't know what else to do! How else do you drag out a D? GA doesn't even require that your financials and child support are in order before they grant a D. They allow that to be figured out later.

I watch this stranger in MY house, sleeping in MY bed, eating MY food and it irritates the snot out of me! I don't want it to be MINE, I want it to be OURS. OURS, get it. I don't want to lose my H, I don't want to give him up without a fight. This 60 day timeframe will kill me and us.

What else can I do? Anyone have any ideas?