The "I will GLADLY do those things when WE get back on track" Is because I feel frustrated because I do those things yet it doesnt make a difference. I feel like IVE given in an effort to make peace but she hasnt met me 1/2 way. Ill give you a scenario, Ill send an e-mail on a Thursday. "Hey sugar! ___ is playing at the Improv this Saturday night. We havent been to the comedy club in a while. Wanna go?" Then I come home and theres no response. I ask her about it again and she says eh, you go. Ill sit on the couch and say "Would you like a massage?" - Nah.. We'll get up on Sunday and I'll ask her if she wants to go to Sunday brunch (she said she loves Sunday Brunch) She says no.. im tired.. you go. Then in later conversations she gets mad at me for not taking her anywhere anymore. Its like I just cant win. She said she was having a hard day the other day so I stopped on the way home and picked up some pink tulips, one of her favorites. I barely got a thank you. Ive bought cards, and written romantic poetry inside.. Im trying to do the 180 and stop being so nice so maybe shell miss the way I used to be. Am I just missing the point again?
