I have received no contact from my wife or son in months.
Daughter tried to make arrangements to visit, but was given excuses. Her mother did not want to drive on the Highway and collect her. WTF she used to drive on the highway daily to and from work! She suggested daughter get the train. With 2 changes in major cities, daughter was not confident enough, she expressed that she was only 15. That was met with, well you can fly hundreds of miles on your own! Then wife was too busy, had arrangments to go out, so it was not convenient.
All exchanges were done by eMail, daughters credit had run out on her phone, wife would not ring the house phone or my mobile. All pathetic, needless and hurtfull.
As a visitiation was quashed, daughter sent her presents by mail. This has not been reciprocated. I would suggest that they had arrived as daughter had a call last night. Very short, all I heard was "No, we are in the car". Wife cannot even talk to her daughter on the phone, if I am anywhere near.
Equally as hurtful, I have not heard from my son since August, he has not contacted any of my side of the family, his grandparents, uncle or me. All of whom, have overcompensated him with presents, love and money, in the last 3 years, to help compensate for what has happened to him.
I wonder if this is his mothers influence, a teenager thing, or a chip off the old block.
