I think the lights out thing has to do with it being romantic. and you were both forced to be in it. I don't think either of you, if you wanted to, would be able to or feel comfortable trying to develop a romantic atmosphere on your own.
and your 180 was sooooo cool. maybe all this time H had been wishing you would want to go with him, but knew you'd never be into it and thus his weirdness. And BOY did you play that so well! That 180 worked great, and I bet he was so suprised, and sounds like he was happily surprised at that.
you know, our lights were only out for hours, and I, along with the kids were dissappointed it came on, but H- thought we were crazy. I still get jealous of ya Nikki.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
