re: klm. No. They only met in April 2007. They had a physics lab together I think. Apparently things went extremely quickly from friends to mutual friends (meaning me knowing her and her sister) to sleeping together (but it just being physical since our sex life "sucked" and "her sex drive matches" H's according to him) to H thinking that we needed to get a D and he needed to pursue a "real" and "legitimate" (meaning we needed to do the summary dissolution RIGHT THEN) R with OW.
One of the things my T pointed out to me when I was still going was that OW has no idea what he was like before he deployed, how he has changed, plus she has no expectations since they haven't been together for 7 years. That makes her more attractive right now I guess.
re: NikB. It has been no contact since Dec 16th. His away message says he's in class, so I could call and cross my fingers that he's really in class and doesn't answer I suppose. I don't even know what I'd say though. Happy New Year works I guess. I need to get in a better frame of mind before I do it at any rate.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
