I think most would support your decision to eliminate the monthly meetings. I can relate to the emotional drain that occurs and it always took me a few days after the weekend visits to get out of the fog. Knowing the the fog was mostly self imposed because of failed expectations and impatience. I hid those things well from the ex for the most part.....but they were rolling around in my head.
Taking a break to refocus will allow you to make a more balanced decision whether to resume the meetings on a more limited basis or not.
We can't make someone a priority who is only considering us as an option.
