Thanks RCR, for the reply to MMF about the courage versus cowardice. Your explanation was on point. Even though I admired her "courage", I still thought it was the wrong thing to do. If she had the courage to leave, she should have had the courage to stay and work it out. It goes both ways.
PoohBear
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.