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Originally Posted By: Yoyowife
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I know a woman who has a husband that tans. When he tans he wears one sock, and I'm not talking about on his foot either...


Yoyo- I am seriously surprised that he hasn't thought of that yet. I noticed this morning.....yes, I got a look at a naked butt ;\) ...., that he has some serious tan lines in areas that those sexy underwear would normally cover. Just funny to me.

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I was considering tanning for a 180/GAL. I have never done it before...

I must remember to bring an extra sock...

Of course, if I do go, I run the risk of lwb pointing at me and screaming, "MLC!!"


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Now Mark, please remember that I said there's nothing wrong with it. It's just that in my H's case, it's almost obsessive. I see how dark he is (in the middle of winter) and then there's the fact that he always insisted that it causes cancer and forbid me to do it.

Tan away my friend, just make sure the necessary parts are covered!!

Just a thought and this was mentioned on another thread. They (WAS) always seem to get angry at us for the same exact things they may do. My big thing is if I don't answer the phone right away or don't see that H called, he'll say things like....What, not taking my calls now?....or if it's during the day at work, he wants to know why I don't have my cell on me at all times in case it's an emergency for D3. Yet, there have been MANY times that I've been unable to reach him and he's pissed when he calls back, asking me WHAT DO YOU WANT?? Damn WAS's.

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Originally Posted By: SueS


Tan away my friend, just make sure the necessary parts are covered!!


The aforementioned parts are only necessary if they are being used for their intended purpose.

And they are not.

Regardless, I will cover as needed... in case of an emergency.


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Can't help but mention: On our vacation last summer, I treated myself to a tanning treatment - out of a bottle. It was subtle, looked good, and W liked it. \:\)


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Okay, okay......maybe mentioning H's tanning wasn't the best. I don't have a problem with tanning. Again, H hated tanning and if people could see the tan lines I see, then they'd understand.....probably chuckle too. I love it when my H is tanned, but not when I know that he's not doing it for me!! Maybe that's what I should have said.

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LOL!! Sue I totally get what you are saying about the tanning. : )

I can't help to sit here laughing picturing a sock over a willie while laying in a tanning bed. LMAO!!

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Trying-

Yes, that would be an amusing sight.

How are you doing?

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Sues,

Its amazing what they think their entitled to after they are the ones who had the affair to begin with. HELLOOO... They aren't entitled to that info anymore in my book!

\:\)

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I love being tan!!!! I 'let myself go' this summer and just did minimal sunscreen and got a nice looking tan. I loved it, was sad to see it go.

Tanning is fine, its just when its wrapped up in the MLC/selfish WAS, then its not fine. Mark, I agree, tan away..... It'll look good. Do it on one of your road trips and really get W guessing......

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