Piecing is hard...should I even do it?

[Patrick325]

Since you don't have kids it's a question of forgiveness. If you want to forgive him, then do. Explain that you will need assurances from him that he will never do it again. You may also tell him that you may need assurance from him on a regular basis that he is being faithful. Make sure your sex lives are fulfilling and move on. Let him know that "one more time and it's over"...and you should stand by that. Don't dwell on the infidelity too much if you can help it. It is alot easier realizing it was just sex and it's over.