OK, so here's what happened: H emailed me back, asking if I thought the girls would like to visit their g-parents on Sunday (when he & I already have plans to do different things, so that's safer for him.) I asked if he meant Sun instead of or in addition to Saturday (just because it wasn't clear) and of course he managed again to dodge the Sat night movie idea. (I gotta say, he has gotten amazingly good at dodging questions...)
I said that his mom would want to know the plan and to let her know what it was.
Are we going to a movie Sat night? Who knows? Hopefully I'll find out from someone.
I appreciate being brought into line, you guys. I am doing the best I can at DBing. Just like our darling MLCers waffle, so do DBers--or at least I do. I'm on a yo-yo too. One minute I'm convinced DB is the only way to go and I must adhere to it at all costs, but then suddenly I get thrown off course and think that it would be better for H & I to spend time together (hence the movie idea) than not to. Sometimes we really do reconnect when we hang out together--and that's why I issue these invitations sometimes.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08