And look at all the preaching I have done to you about looking at myspace!! See...easier said than done.
You are right looking won't fix anything. The thing that I'm torn about is maybe it does mean there is no hope if he is still lying. I want to work on it but I can't just turn a blind eye if things are still going on with her. How will I ever know if it is really over? I will hold off on looking for now...not sure if I can shred it though!
If you are never supposed to look then how do you ever begin trusting again. I feel like he is going to have to prove it to me by showing me things like phone bills and emails.